Making The Most Of The Middle

Life used to be so much fun being in the middle. Remember when it was cool to be the one in the middle of a photo or sit in between your besties at the movies. Those were the days when no one EVER wanted to be the first or last in line.

Making the most of itNow, I have a totally different view of what it means to be “in the middle,” and it’s definitely not as amusing as I remember. Today, it seems we all take life too seriously focusing straight ahead to reach goals society has programmed us to achieve. We also often get stuck in-between jobs, in the middle of two family members, or even in-between a best friend and a boyfriend. I’ll admit for the past year I have felt like quite the middle man, or woman I should say. I’m in that limbo adult phase in life where I have a nice job and great group of friends, but still not sure where I’m headed; and that’s ok. I’ve come to realize that fully accepting the middle means you’ve taken the responsibility to take control of your own life; no syllabus or directions included.

 

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You’re not schizophrenic; you’re in your 20’s.

16 is sweet, 18 is legal… 20’s are…
 
Oh our 20s… It’s hard to sum up exactly who you are and what you stand for during these years. What the heck, this is supposed to be a woman’s prime! We’re finally acne free and clear of any awkward phase, however it isn’t that easy to wash away the real troubles we are experiencing. 

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 As I approach my 23rd birthday this month I realize how fast my 20’s are going and how much I have changed within the past few years. I think I have easily mastered 20 different personalities, and no, I’m not schizophrenic.  Many of you might think that sounds crazy, but I am sure all you 20 something year old’s can relate. During this time of instability and a world filled of uncertainty we are constantly being challenged and pushed to our limits. These times can make us laugh, cry, scream, and somehow become a certain somebody that helps us get through it all.
Caution: The 20 different personalities’ you may experience during your 20’s… 

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